Trans people aren't going to eat you, I promise.

     Let me start off by saying I'm a cis-gendered gay man. That way y'all know the perspective I'm coming from. Moving on! Why the hello kitty are queer people so hung up on this? Yes, they were born with the wrong body, and yes certain precautions and conversations should be had when doing the freaky sneaky but that's not a hard ask. Hell, most trans folks don't want you anywhere near their bits that they were born with because the dysphoria is hella real. So what's the problem?
     Y'all out here acting like trans men are uber lesbians when that couldn't be further from the truth. And you can't say they're too feminine when y'all be out here with super twinks calling their assholes a "bussy". Hello? And to be honest, most trans dudes aren't all that feminine looking because you know, dysphoria. Trans women are not drag queens who want to be drag all the time. Have you seen drag makeup? Who the hell wants to do that 24/7? They just want to be pretty, because you know, dysphoria.  Which, to all my trans buddies out there, I am so sorry you have deal with that. I did some research into what occurs and holy shit snacks on rye, that is a lot. Keep your head up.
     Refocusing back on problematic ass people. Trans people are people. They deserve love, respect, and understanding like everybody else. If you feel that you don't have what it takes to be in a romantic relationship with someone who's trans, then be honest and open about it. Investigate the why and see where that introspection leads. But demonizing trans people and othering them is not helping and makes you a bit of shit. We are already at war with the general populace. Agent Orange in the white house has made it very fashionable for the bigots and ignorant to come out and play. The Queer community is already hella racist and sexist. Can we try to not be transphobic on top of that? Please?